Comparison kills.

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Comparison is a stealth thief and a ruthless killer.  It sneaks up on us at the most unsuspecting times and robs us of our personal peace, our daily joy, and sometimes even our hopes and dreams.

We’ve all been there… we lay our head on the pillow at night and scroll through Instagram to see what our friends were up to today, and then boom.  There it is.  The perfect body, the beautiful selfie, the job promotion, the luxurious vacation, the engagement announcement… that thing you wish was yours.  In an instant, an otherwise peaceful day ends with the bitter pangs of comparison.

Comparison brings along with it the shame and disappointment of a life we long for but will never live.  It whispers to us that we are not enough, that there is something wrong or broken about us that will never be made right.  It keeps us in a place of wounded defeat and pounces every time we attempt to stretch ourselves and experience something beyond our comfort zone.

Even worse, comparison threatens to keep us from living out our hopes and dreams by convincing us that we don’t have what it takes to achieve it.  But if God has put a dream in your heart, it’s for a specific purpose that he wants to fulfil in your life.  If God has given you a dream it’s because you have everything it will take to achieve it and more.  If God has given you a dream it’s because he is willing to equip and empower you to carry it through to completion.

All too often we allow the voice of comparison to rob us of new opportunities, promotions or connections that would move us towards our dreams because we are trapped by the negative narrative of fear, doubt and insecurity.

Comparison also longs to keep us isolated and incapable of working together effectively with other women.  We need to dig down deep and expose the lies of comparison in our lives in order to move past the rhetoric in our own heads and move into the plans and purposes of God.

When it comes to chasing our God-sized dreams, there are three very specific ways that comparison can quickly get us off track.  Our gifts and natural talents, our available resources and our experience.  For more read the full blog post here.


Galatians 5:26 MSG

We will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.


Brenda Drost is a Pastor and Speaker who is known for her warm smile and passionate preaching style. Whether she is teaching at her home church or out on the road, she loves to bring challenging messages that actually help people live out their faith in the real world.  She and her husband live on their farm in the beautiful Niagara Region of Ontario, Canada where they have raised their four children.   Find out more about Brenda here.